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Create your profile
Add photos, say what you’re looking for, and share as much or as little about your life as you like — including disability, if and when you want to.
How it works
From profile to first date.
Profiles, search, matching and messaging, plus safety tools and optional VIP, explained in plain English. This is dating for singles 35 and over.
Three steps, then a conversation
Join in a few minutes. You can look around straight away — no paid plan required to get started.
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Browse and connect
Search, like and match with people you actually want to meet, near you or further afield.
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Start the conversation
Message your matches, and keep things on the site until you both feel ready to meet in person.
What you can do here
The basics are included when you join. Upgrade only if you want extras.
A profile you control
Photos, interests and the details you choose to share. You decide what to say about your life, and you can edit as you go (free memberships have some limits on edits).
Search that works for you
Look for people by what actually matters to you, not by a single label. Free search is limited; VIP and VIP+ include advanced search with unlimited results.
Messaging and matching
Like, match and chat one to one. Free memberships have some limits on messaging; VIP and VIP+ include unlimited messaging, plus extras such as seeing who likes you.
Safety tools
Block, report and verification options, plus practical advice for meeting in person. Keep early chats on the site.
Optional VIP and VIP+
Unlimited messaging, advanced search, seeing who likes you, and other extras if you want them. Never required to start. See plans and prices.
Built for grown-ups
This is grown-up dating for singles 35 and over. Modern, fun, and here for real matches.
A plain-English note on extras
Some tools come with a free membership, with limits. VIP adds things like unlimited messaging, advanced search, seeing who likes you, unlimited likes and rewinds, read receipts, Incognito, and weekly Super Matches and Boosts. VIP+ adds priority placement for your profile, an enhanced profile design and the VIP+ badge.
The full comparison, including every item on the official list, is on the pricing page — along with how plans are paid. Features can change, and not every feature is available on every site.
Ready when you are.
Create a profile and start matching. Optional VIP if you want more.
Create your profile